As a sentimental counselor, I am confronted every day by men and women who have unfortunately experienced a breakup or who are struggling to get out of celibacy and finally find the love of their lives. It is because both of these situations can be painful that you as a couple must do everything to preserve your story and never neglect your partner. Unfortunately, the love life is not always rosy because it is essential to reconcile your needs and those of your half. I imagine that if you read these lines is that you are currently going through a difficult period and you want to find solutions to remedy it.
Stopping the couple problems is a laudable goal but still it is necessary to do everything to achieve this, but also to provide an appropriate response according to what his half wishes. For some people, waiting too long to react is problematic while others simply do not act the right way. It is therefore important to act in a timely manner but also to take into account the expectations of his / her partner, in order to give a new impetus to his relationship.
Thanks to a method of adapted coaching and my expertise, we will, together, make sure to revive the flame and put an end to the negative aspects that meets your couple. It is by doing so that you will finally be able to have a more serene and fulfilling sentimental life. All couples go through bad passes but the goal is to leave them behind you. By applying these 3 golden rules to put an end to couple problemsthat's what you'll be able to do.
The patience to stop the problems of the couple!
My experience as a counselor in the life of a couple is my main strength because I am confronted with multiple everyday situations. So, once again I will be inspired by a coaching experience to guide you on the right path, the one that will take you to the happiness in love found.
I have noticed that when it comes to working on a relationship, most people who use my services lack patience. If you are on this page today, it is that problems of couple have been established since weeks or probably even months, then it will take you almost as much time to find the solution, to apply it and to remedy it. It's not in 2 days that we can save his couple and start again. Often the harm is deep but that does not mean that there is nothing to do ...
If you are not aware that it takes time for stop couple problems then you risk being perpetually disappointed and this will inevitably affect your morale. To be systematically at the top, do not set unattainable goals, it is necessary to use the technique of the staircase which will be scalable. So you have to be realistic and patient with yourself without forgetting to be demanding!
Some men and some women think that it is only in one romantic evening that everything will change, and that with efforts when everything is really going they will be able to catch up every time. So I have to be clear with you, the answer is no. Maybe this strategy will work once, or two. But know that you will have to use several times to overcome all the tensions in the couple. This without stress and maintaining a plan and a vision both on the short term but also in the medium and long term. This is essential ! I am aware that many have trouble seeing the end of the tunnel but it is by persisting, not letting go that we find happiness in his couple.
Control your emotions to revive the flame
Most of couple problems will lead to crises during which you will have trouble controlling your emotions. You will probably cry, scream, threaten but do not hit it ... In short, you are not yourself anymore, but you still need to keep some self control to not exceed the limits. One can understand nervousness but not physical violence.
The control of emotions is easier said than done, I grant you. To advance in this area, you will have to take stock of your sensitivity to the words or actions of your partner. No matter what your half tells you, you have to move forward with a definite direction, toward a very ultimate goal: that of to reinstate complicity in the couple.
To achieve better control of his emotions, I develop coaching techniques innovative and ultra effective so if you want advice on this do not hesitate to come back to me for a specific consultation to put an end to the difficulties of couple. Moreover, one of them is to externalize all this frustration through an activity that will let you off steam. If you're going to run in the wilderness and you're going crazy, shouting a big shot, meeting certain goals, you'll immediately feel more confident and more able to hold a guideline! Stopping couple problems starts with small actions that initially do not have a direct relationship with the couple. It is therefore a work on oneself in addition to a work on one's relationship. It is precisely at this level that lies the personal development axis.
The unprecedented advice of an expert in couple coaching!
The best way to strengthen your love life is to stay focused on positive that one will be able to bring to the person who shares his life. This goes first and foremost by ... the smile of course. It's the same in your couple. You must constantly be smiling and show a foolproof dynamism. Do not be the type of boring partner that we will find at home after a day of work with a hint of disappointment because we know that today will be like yesterday, who was himself as before yesterday . Be alive and enthusiastic and break the routine once and for all ...
Your partner is waiting for a specific item called the "Need for Life and Freedom". When there is a discomfort in the couple, a negative feeling arises and our common work for you and me is to eradicate it. For that, it is necessary to revive the flame, the passion and the feelings around a principal idea: make her spouse happy or his wife totally fulfilled by your side!
But to do this you must first be yourself! So do not bet on the happiness of the other and act only for him / her, but be sincere in your actions. That's why a lot of the work is done at first on you and not directly to your partner. You have a tendency to want to stick too much, to be ubiquitous for pick up the pieces in the couple and that will actually have the opposite effect by creating even more distance between you. You wonder why and the answer is simple, in a couple like in any field everything is a question of balance. If you put in place different actions, original, and you leave the routine you will necessarily make him happy.
It's simple, since 2007 and the beginning of my activity in love advice all the people who managed to save their couple had a positive state of mind and had first taken over. The mind plays a decisive role in romantic relationships and yours must be of steel so as not to let you down.
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